Being a woman is not that easy in some
days. There are times when you just seek for approval, or affirmation.
Sometimes, you catch yourself say, “Please tell me I’m beautiful.”
Oftentimes, kind words from others would make you feel so good about
yourself and one day, you feel like you need more of it. Lady, in these
kind of days, you need to tell yourself the kindest words. Even when
other people don’t have the time, energy, and attention to do so.
Here are 5 things every woman should say to herself every day:
1. “I am enough and beautiful”
With all these reminders of the
“standards of beauty” every day, don’t get carried away and feel
insecure. All these do not define who you are what your beauty brings to
others and to your very self. In the morning, tell yourself “I am
enough and beautiful”, and this shall be your compass each day. This
will guide you against any false idea about real beauty. No matter how
the commercial world boost “perfect beauty”, be at peace that you are
imperfect and flawed yet enough and beautiful.
2. “My presence will make someone look forward for tomorrow”
Whether you are out on a date with your
husband or you are spending time with friends, be present. It is when
you give your full attention and your heart to what you are channeling
your energy to. You are a wonderful source of light and inspiration.
Step out of that door and let others enjoy your presence and love.
As a woman, you have the tenderness and innate caring spirit that makes others feel better and secured.
3. “He was wrong”
Oftentimes, what makes a woman falter is
the negative comments of an ex-lover. It is easy to slip away when
people (especially those you truly feel close to) makes you feel that
you are a bad person. They say all these bad things about you and want
to change you for someone else that they may find convenient. Well, you
do know you are not perfect but it is not enough reason to just toss
yourself away to the bin. Feel good and right about who you are today
and flaunt it.
Men can say anything they want against
you: that your skirt is too short or your quirks are annoying. As long
as you are happy and comfortable with who you are, tell yourself every
day, “he was wrong.”
4. “The cure for anything is water”
Remember to stay hydrated. Experts
recommend drinking a good amount of water can help you detoxify.
Drinking enough water helps you maintain good skin and over-all
vitality. When you are feeling low and a little tired or stressed out, a
good shower can surely ease the blues. For older women, they would tell
stories of making sure that taking shower comes before all the
household chores in the later afternoon. Soaking yourself with a good
read, good music, or good scents can make you feel so relaxed, sensual,
and beautiful.
5. “All that you are seeking is also seeking you”
Franz Kafka wrote the line:”all that you
are seeking is also seeking you.” Every day you need to remind yourself
that your quest from something is not a one way street. In return, what
you are looking for is also seeking to get closer to your path. When
you want to achieve something, I is just right out there in the horizon
also seeking you. When you say this to yourself every day, it will keep
you going, taking your time, and one day, you will be found.
So there you go with the 5 things every woman should say to herself every day. Women may always
be associated with words like pretty, hot, and gorgeous. But it is a
truth that they too get exhausted about life. When other people around
you seem no to care, remember that you are a woman of pure soul and
tender heart. Each day, you are the master of your own path so love
yourself more.
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